You know your body. But do you know your pleasure body? Book One helped you understand why desire disappeared. Part Two is about becoming the lover you've always wanted to be — for yourself and for your partner. This is the playbook. If you've ever felt like you were going through the motions in bed... if your partner seems satisfied but you're privately wondering if this is as good as it gets... if you know something could be different but you don't have the roadmap — this book was written for you. Dr. Diane Mueller, naturopathic doctor, Board Certified Sexologist, and founder of MyLibidoDoc.com, takes you on a guided journey into the second pillar of desire: your own pleasure body. Because here's the truth most books skip: you cannot teach your partner what you haven't explored yourself. In Part Two, you'll discover: The anatomy of orgasm — clitoral, vaginal, cervical, and full-body — and how to expand what's possible for your unique body - The Arousal Scale: a practical tool that stops you from racing to the finish and teaches you to build pleasure that is longer, deeper, and more profound - Why mismatched desire doesn't mean incompatibility — and the libido codes that reveal how you and your partner are wired differently - Tantric and Taoist techniques — including edging, the Microcosmic Orbit, and the Ancient Techniques — that transform ordinary sex into something you'll actually crave - How sexual shame, attachment style, perfectionism, and past experiences quietly kill desire — and the specific practices that unwind each one - Mindfulness as a bedroom skill: why presence is the single most powerful thing you can do to deepen intimacy - How to map your own erogenous zones so you can finally ask for what you want — with confidence This isn't a book of generic tips. It's a step-by-step self-discovery guide rooted in functional medicine, Eastern healing traditions, and modern sex research — written with the compassion and clinical clarity that has helped Dr. Diane's patients and community members transform their intimate lives worldwide. Whether you're working through desire mismatch with your partner, recovering your sense of self as a sexual being after years of putting everyone else first, or simply ready to have the most passionate chapter of your relationship yet — Part Two will meet you exactly where you are. The best lover you'll ever have is the one who knows themselves. Part Two in the Want to Want It trilogy by Dr. Diane Mueller ND, DAOM, LAc — host of The Libido Lounge podcast and founder of the Hot Monogamy Society, helping 30,000+ couples reignite passion in long-term relationships.