"Silvia helps you identify what you REALLY want. This takes courage and action. She leads you to face your insecurities and move past self-protection and outgrown habits. If your intuition whispers you are ready, now is the time to listen and follow Silvia's wisdom." Ellyn Bader co-founder of The Couples Institute and the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy. "In Is This What I Really Want? Silvia Araya shares her experiences about what it takes to find the relationship you so richly deserve. There is an old saying that relates: Be careful what you ask for because you might get it. Therefore, asking ourselves if what we are after is what we really want is a legitimate and vital question. Using personal stories and examples, Silvia leads readers into exercises to help them develop their genuine selves. Healing the inner child and overcoming old wounds are important ingredients for living a satisfying life. It helps to understand that even the negative things from your past helped make you who you are today. Faith and trust are also needed. Reading this book will give you the skills required to improve your life. Silvia Araya is a clinical trauma professional, numerologist, and expert on panic attacks. As such, she is well qualified to help you find out who you are and what you want. Silvia shares two basic ways to find the essence of what you want: reconnect to your inner child; go within yourself and listen to your intuition. Leading the reader step-by-step through this path of discovery makes Silvia a great author. Silvia writes so everyone can understand her points; she does not use deep, technical language. This book will be a great resource if you seek answers in your life and what it needs. So many topics are covered that it is impossible to review them all. However, I can say that you will learn a great deal. I spent over forty years counseling and would use Is This What I Really Want? with my clients if I were still in practice." Reviewed by Philip VH for Readers’ Favorite Is this what I REALLY want?” it’s such a simple question, and yet it’s so important and profound. Applying this question to everything will help you connect more with your heart, to listen to your intuition, and to trust that it knows more than you can imagine in all areas of your life, but especially in romantic relationships. To know its answer, means you are ready to start a process of self-discovery that will lead you to what you REALLY want. To embark in this journey means you are willing to honor and love yourself above all. The purpose of this book is for you to connect to your voice, your essence, through the pains and struggles of trauma and into the relationship you deep down wanted, and that you truly deserve. "Silvia helps you identify what you REALLY want. This takes courage and action. She leads you to face your insecurities and move past self-protection and outgrown habits. If your intuition whispers you are ready, now is the time to listen and follow Silvia's wisdom." Ellyn Bader co-founder of The Couples Institute and the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy. "Silvia Araya's "Is This What I Really Want" is beyond helpful in getting the reader to hone in on staying true to themselves and being in their integrity. This book helps you to trust how you feel, and that's what I call bold empowerment. Run, don't walk to get your copy today!" -Jaime Bronstein, Yahoo Finance's #1 Relationship Coach and author of "MAN*ifesting: A Step-By-Step Guide to Attracting the Love That's Meant for You" "In Is This What I Really Want? Silvia Araya shares her experiences about what it takes to find the relationship you so richly deserve. There is an old saying that relates: Be careful what you ask for because you might get it. Therefore, asking ourselves if what we are after is what we really want is a legitimate and vital question. Using personal stories and examples, Silvia leads readers into exercises to help them develop their genuine selves. Healing the inner child and overcoming old wounds are important ingredients for living a satisfying life. It helps to understand that even the negative things from your past helped make you who you are today. Faith and trust are also needed. Reading this book will give you the skills required to improve your life. Silvia Araya is a clinical trauma professional, numerologist, and expert on panic attacks. As such, she is well qualified to help you find out who you are and what you want. Silvia shares two basic ways to find the essence of what you want: reconnect to your inner child; go within yourself and listen to your intuition. Leading the reader step-by-step through this path of discovery makes Silvia a great author. Silvia writes so everyone can understand her points; she does not use deep, technical language. This book will be a great resource if you seek answers in your life and what it needs. So many topics are covered that it is impossible to review them all. However, I can